You are good enough

最近在朋友的推荐下开始知道Zen habits 。这位博主是一个成功改变/形成了很多习惯的生活中的minimalist 。

他有六个小孩,家庭孩子一直是他生活中最高优先级。看他给孩子的话第一条是“You are good enough. Most people are afraid to do things because they are afraid they’re not good enough, afraid they’ll fail. But you are good enough — learn that and you won’t be afraid of new things, won’t be afraid to fail, won’t need the approval of others. You’ll be pre-approved — by yourself.” 这一点我不能同意更多。一直以来我喜欢给自己很多框框很多定义,觉得自己不够好,也因此错过很多乐趣和机会吧(比方说大学的时候选专业我觉得数分没学好就选不了数学专业,结果兜兜转转四年以后还是转专业到了统计)

所以啊宝宝。希望你知道不是妈妈溺爱你,你真的足够好好到不需要害怕做任何新事物不需要害怕失败。

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